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About Me

 A Life Of Serial Job Changing

Hello,

My name is Jackie Smith and I live in Sheffield, a large city in the North of England.

Welcome to my website and if you don’t mind spending a few minutes with me, I can give you some idea of who I am, what my experiences have been and how I can help you come up with a business idea if you are searching for one or if you have one already help you refine it to fit you perfectly.

I want to help you design your perfect business around who you are and how you want to live your life

 If  you are searching for a way out of your current work situation or are seeking a more creative, fulfilling and meaningful way to spend your working day  and earn what you are worth, I warmly & sincerely welcome you here.

Whatever the reason it is important you do something that fits you like a glove

 Believe me when I say I know

I absolutely know how it feels to be where you are now.

The search for work happiness has caused me a lot of stress and mental pain over the years, and too many to count arguments with people close to me who thought I was "difficult to please" or "a bit lazy and didn't really want to go to workbecause it was just so not true.

Like many work tortured souls I have been searching  my whole adult life for the perfect job but it has never appeared in any newspaper or become available through any recruitment agency.

The sad truth was...I eventually realised!

The perfect career will never exist in a building where you have to start and finish at a time appointed by others, are allowed the privilege of 48 hours of not working each week, affectionately called the weekend and you accept the other luxury of 30 days in the year where you can be absent with the manager's permission, romantically named your holidays.

All for the bargain price of a set salary each month!

But, I also learned...

The happy truth is you can create your own dream work full or part time and I want to show you how to discover a living that will stir your soul and doesn't suck the life out of you.

 My Rubbish Corporate Career

I have been going to work from Monday to Friday for over 35 years and in that time I have never had a job I ever progressed in because I could never find one to fit me properly.

Like wearing shoes half a size too small, I always felt just a bit uncomfortable most of the time.

Apart from 10 years continuous service in the RAF which I enjoyed, over the last 26 years I have been in 23 other admin jobs so, on average a new one each year

I also had a Saturday job from age 14 for 4 years so if you count that, I have been at work for over 40 years now.

So the reality is, no one can ever say I was work shy.

From the age of 28 after I left the services I began my nomadic work lifestyle

I worked in both the public and private sector so  I understand different work cultures employees are in.

I have moved from role to role in search of my dream one only to find each time there was eventually, usually something I disliked about it.

The role itself changed,  sometimes it was the customers, a member of the team, a manager, an owner, the organisational ethics, the hours, most definitely the pay, but always something became an excuse to move on again, in the vain hope the next one would be better.

Each time I changed jobs, it was with the most sincere intent to stay and do well.

Each time I said to myself this was the one I would try harder at, or stay longer at but it it wasn't to be.

What I didn't realise was the problem wasn't the job, the problem was me.

I didn't know myself well enough and I wasn't surrounded by people who had any other experiences than the one I was having.

I didn't know any one in business or any freelancers who did their own thing.

I just followed what everyone else did, which was leave school and get a job because I didn't know any other way and continued that way for years.

I didn't realise you could actually design your own job or think outside the standard job box

Now, I realise, after a lot of mistakes, learning from mentors and doing my own research there are other ways to live your life and be happy and the root problem why people stay stuck isn't about money.

The root problem is lack of commitment to change & willingness to alter your course as you go.

You have to decide what you want first, commit your soul to it, then take steps to get there.

Nothing is ever perfect to start with so you adjust as you go.

Now to add context to what I offer now, Let's move on to...

 My First Business Attempts

I have attempted in the real world to start a business online in several areas, travel, food, finance, relationships and a couple more and failed and also started an off line business with my husband.

On reflection, none of them were ever going to work because I went about it all wrong and didn't listen to my own internal dialogue or stand back and look at who I was or how I did things

The start up with my husband went very badly wrong and nearly destroyed our relationship.

We started a property management company whilst we lived overseas because there was a gap in the market.

Great idea in principle but what we ended up doing was choosing a business that made us work to our weaknesses not our strengths and the resentment we both felt and shared turned into a relationship time bomb.

It wasn't pretty or nice and I don't recommend it.

But we are here to tell the tale and have learned a lot from the experience and now don't think of it as failure at all.

In fact all that has gone before I would now embrace as a blessing in disguise

I know what you need to do to get off the treadmill

 A Word About The Word Failure!

I hate the word and the connotation built up around it.

It is such a devastating, confidence kicking, misery inducing part of the English language.

It stops people in their tracks and halts a thousand dreams.

My definition of failure back then was a bad one and I gave myself a very hard time about it, it knocked my confidence for absolutely years and I wasted SO MUCH TIME criticising myself.

Not only that, I allowed others to criticise me too thus re-inforcing the perception of failure in my own mind.

What I didn't realise was you

"never ask travel advice from people who have never left home"

Never a truer word spoken don't you think, perhaps that might resonate with you and your situation.

Looking back at life now through my rear view mirror

My definition now of failure is there is no such thing.

All events along the way are a learning experience and without them I wouldn't be able to understand retrospectively why those ventures never worked out.

Nor be able to explain to you how to mitigate potential problems before they start.

I have learned a lot from my mistakes in the past, they are serving me well in the present and will continue to do so in the future

The upshot of all this "failure" was I had to go back to a regular job doing regular things because I was missing the vital pieces of the jigsaw and instead of looking for answers I accepted it because it was the easiest option and I didn't know how else to change the situation.

I have since learned in very stark terms;

I wasn't organising my life properly and choosing my business idea around the Life First Work Second principal, nor was I choosing a business in line with who I was

I was too busy listening to the follow your passion brigade, an ideal I no longer subscribe to fully.

There are so many, many more more things to consider than just passion for something, and following it may not be the best advice for you.

So now I hope...

 My Journey Can Be Your Opportunity

If you are on on that slow boat to job hell and what I have experienced resonates even just a little bit with you, then I would like to help you  find your dream life and fit your career around it, not the other way around.

I don't want you to experience the same drain on your life  I have endured for YEARS  because of a lack of knowledge or a helping hand from someone who has been where you are now

It has been a natural thing for me to become a Life First, Work Second Career Coachas it allows me to help others like you think outside the job box and use my natural talent of seeing the bigger picture to connect dots between what you love to do and come up with creative income streams.

The Life First - Work Second approach  has allowed me to understand, there is another way of looking at work and life and how the two can be successfully woven into your own successful life and business.

You too can do work that inspires you and motivates you and makes you want to get out bed in the morning.

 Are you ready to get off that sofa now?

Are you sick to death of working for others?

Is the commute taking just a little bit more of your soul each day?

Do you really, finally want to get going and do something for yourself?

Then you will probably benefit from  my free  E-Course about designing a business around your personality and how you want to live your life.

Kick your commute and use the 3 Steps to turn what you know into an income based around you and your personality

Everyone has something they can share with others and benefit handsomely from.

What is your business you have been hiding under a bushel for all these years?

Sign up below and your course will be winging its way to you soon.

It is time for you to shine


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